Genesis 28:8-9 Esau then realized how displeasing the Canaanite women were to his father Isaac; so he went to Ishmael and married Mahalath, the sister of Nebaioth and daughter of Ishmael son of Abraham, in addition to the wives he already had.
Everyone messes up. Sometimes we mess up on accident and sometimes on purpose. There are those times when we didn’t know any better, but we were still wrong. For example, getting caught going 50mph in a 35 when you never saw the speed limit sign would be a mess up that was on accident. If you are going 100mph, you are going to have a hard time convincing the officer it was a mistake. You blew it, just admit it.
Sometimes we think can do something right to fix what was wrong. And we can fix some of the damage. Other times, however, no amount of fixing will do the job. You’ve heard the expression that 3 wrongs don’t make a right (which is odd because 3 lefts certainly do). I would say that in the same way, 3 rights don’t fix a wrong. A week’s worth of being a good person doesn’t repair a lifetime of poor choices.
Esau had a startling realization: he had married the wrong women. The word on the street was that his dad didn’t approve of Canaanite women, which apparently he had married. So in order to remedy the situation, he went out and found an additional wife. She was a good wife, a good choice, the right kind apparently. This will make dad proud. Now I have the right kind of wife. Just one question, Esau… what about your other wives? How does marrying one right wife change the fact that you are married to a handful of wrong ones? Short answer – it doesn’t.
Placing a drop of clean water in contaminated water doesn’t make it drinkable. Doing one right thing doesn’t negate the 3 previous wrong things. But many people approach God in this way. They try to clean up their act before going to Him. They make a point to be good the day before church. Maybe He won’t notice all the other days. We try to so hard, but we need to realize that all these right things don’t fix the wrong things. There’s just one solution: Jesus. Jesus fixed all the wrong things. He did for us what we couldn’t do for ourselves. He made right what we had made wrong. He is our saviour, our fixer; He is all that is right.
*Are you trying to fix all your wrong things on your own? Turn it over to Jesus and let Him make it right.